I just think you have to know yourself. If that means analyzing, well then, so be it. Everyone wavers back and forth so don't ever feel bad about doing it.
I mean I know I don't want back with ex and just last week at our daughter's concert, I nearly grabbed his hand. It's a habit, not what I want.
It took me about a year and half after the divorce to feel good about dating or the prospect of it. Everyone has their own timeline. You will be glad that you waited until it felt right.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory