Thanks guys you have given me some good insightful questions to ask.
We really need to get some R talk in b/c I don't want to lose what little love I have for my W. I feel it can be revived but also feel that once it's gone. it's gone for good.

I see now how affirs start. Some else shows attention to you that you haven't seen in awhile and bam....

I am receiving plenty attention from OW and need to speak to W so I know where we stand.

I spoke to our mutual friend and she has asked me not to mention the "Hook up" on vacation. I will honor her request.
What advantage point would I gain by revealing I know??

Monday can't get here quick enough.


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