She told me that my W's lawyer expressed frustration with my W, saying that she doesn't appear to know what she wants in the divorce agreement and is confused.
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W has sent a text message saying "I really miss you, and I'm so sorry".
Stay very alert - could be real remorse or trying to get you to soften up on the legal side.
Think thru what it would take for you to want to reconcile. List it out, be specific, think about now and long term, and think about what is best for you.
Stay detached - it allows you to think and subdue the emotions.
You are being watched. The more cool, composed, confident and decisive you are the better for both of you.
Decide what you want in a marriage, wife, lover and partner.
You can handle it.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
