25, D13 was very very close to her father, and he called her every night. That is why she was upset, because she had called him and he didn't answer his cell and then turned it off. She was suppose to see him the following day and that's why she was calling him. But he never called, told her he was busy and that's why she got upset.
She is very smart and called him a liar after she stopped crying. I told her that he wouldn't lie to her (of course I lied), and maybe he wasn't feeling well or something. Once she calmed down she said "Oh well".
Yes, I probably contribute to her being obsessed about him but trust me they were always side by side and he always answered her calls and told her when we were together how much he loved her and since the separation and how much he misses her.
All of a sudden he starts acting funny, and she knows this. She just said last night that she was hurt because he didn't call her and she had to call him. She asked me, what is more important than me that daddy has to do anymore. I just told her that right now he isn't himself, and to give him time and he hopefully will get better and be his old self again towards her.
She was fine with that. Except she told me she is getting tired of him lying to her about not having money for her, and other stuff that goes on that she catches him in.
I don't want a magic answer from C. Although in the beginning of this mess, yes I expected her to tell me what the heck was wrong with him. I know now that one can do that now. It's just that she is always telling me to find another man to take my mind off of H and that he is not worth fighting for and that will help me forget about him. To start dating etc.
She was helping me with my panic attacks though. So that is working. She tells me stories all of the time about WAS's that don't return and that in all of her years of practice that if they don't return within a few months they aren't coming back. So with the panic attacks she helps, but telling me to find someone else and to date I believe is wrong.
Like I said, I will go to my next appointment and tell her I need her to help me make steps to help myself and to please not discuss H or anyone else's sitch. Cause that is basically what she does and it only gets my mind going again on H.
