But from WH's perspective, most of what he see's is me and the kids thriving without him, and me pushing him away because he won't commit.
But the only thing that scares him is me finding someone else, and someone that is "better" than him (his insecurities here).
But since I'm not dating, nor divorced, and working full-time and raising kids in the absence of a singles social circle, that is very unlikely to happen.
So he just keeps going with this stupid strategy of his.
I really think the only way he might stop is if I date, or get divorced. But then he'd probably just go off on his own way anyway, blame it all on me, and then any chance of R is lost.
