You're doing the same thing I do. Trying to figure it out. Just DB - just do it - and then wait and monitor results. There are no easy answers, the only way you can figure out if "it" works is by doing "it" and waiting and monitoring results.

I'm so sorry you are finding yourself here. Hugs.

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