I can only assume you've managed to hack your wife's account, and are reading (and perhaps even deleting) her posts here. So I wanted to write to you, man to man, in the hopes that you have the guts and the character to respond.
Your wife is hurting, and you are directly contributing to that hurt. Just as YOU are hurting, and she bears responsibility for some of your past marital problems.
It doesn't happen often, but some other couples have both posted on here and helped their marriages successfully. If you will take the time to do that, we can try to start a dialogue and see if we can't help you and your family. Inviting a third person into the marriage isn't the answer, and if she were a true friend, she would back off and respect your marriage -- even if it's ending.
Whatever you may think of us, we are hardly "jackals." Just real folks, struggling (or have struggled) with our marriages just like you are.
