MLC - standing by my man

[Mila]

Thank you HB, there are few comments that strike true in my sitch

There wasn't enough TIME for him to break the addiction..this was what OW Withdrawal was all about, time for him to get her out of his head/heart, to break his ADDICTION to her.

I believe that this last time he wanted to R he was actually serious when he said that he wants to get her out of his head and move on with his life...and the first week I did see the most progress in that direction....and then she recontacted him.

This can even be applied to the idiot MLC'ers who decide to keep OW/OM, quickly divorce the LBS and marry their affair

WH decided to continue with OW but at least he doesn't seem in the rush to D. He never brought it up and he was hesitant when I last asked...he said "I guess eventually".

The feelings in an affair themselves can be addictive..but that high does NOT last long at all, and will fade into embers. I remember reading somewhere that this comes within two years from the start of the affair.

It's been a year...could I take another year of his flip flops?

The LBS is viewed at the staunchion(pillar of strength or even a lighthouse in the fog), the person who bears responsibility, it can go as far as them being viewed as an authority figure; the one that's large and in charge. They represent something the MLC'er wants NO part of while he/she is in this altered state....RESPONSIBILITY.

Rigs true in my sitch, yet he keeps coming back every time he is trouble with OW.

HB you can "highjack" my tread anytime you want to

Thanks for caring (((hugs)))