tired of trying...

[Geomom]

shelbel, I understand how you feel right now because, in so many ways, my sitch feels very similar to yours. H came over last night to spend time with our son, then proceeded (after son went to bed) to hammer away at R issues, no matter how many times I kept saying I wasn't going to talk about it at that point. So many of his responses, though, were -- like your H's -- plain weird. I really feel like he's just pushing me to snap and break things off so he can say it was all my idea.

I have one great book recommendation, by the way. It's not a relationship book, but it does give some great insights into the human spirit: it's "The Survivor's Club: The Secrets and Science that Could Save Your Life." Oddly, I had checked it out of the library before my whole situation came down, but it certainly came in handy. Very good read.