In a way I was blessed to not have to go thru this.....mine left 900 miles away to move us eventually, but he and o/w were making plans all along,Jan.08 he had made his decision i was being used to keep his stuff in the garage once he came to get them and there was nothing here for him to take was the end for us...I dont know how I could of handled him moving back in and back out....I think God had it planned this way, because he knew how much I could of handled....I would of taken my life and was planning to back then but God knew this and how much I could of taken as far running into them, or him visiting and then leaving to go to her ....I thank God everyday for his grace and mercy....just hand it over to God, nothing else we can do and it is nice to know that HE really is in control.that relationship will never be blessed by God and it will one day self destruct their relationship was based on nothing but lies, let go and let God just know there is power in prayer and you are on my prayer list as I am sure all those in here as well..... adios
