Hugs NM. How did it go with your therapist? Did you get some good advice on the landlord issues? Is not wanting him to know how hurt you are part of your DBing?
I am glad you have been able to reach out to us here, as you have been there for us from the beginning. The new visitation routine you have going is hard... it's a big change to how it has been... why don't you see how it goes for a few weeks & reasses. Keep note of the changes taking place in WAH. And then assess that according to your goals. Is it bringing you closer to achieving your goals, or pushing you further away.
I wonder if it would help if you set out what your goals are here for us to look at?
