Geronimo, it's what makes us different from the animals, we choose to raise kids together...in theory. Though the selfish spouses don't care and would rather feel their lives fulfilled than compromise and learn to work together. I just think back to when they promised so much when they stood there and said their vows- what a bunch of liars!
After this experience I don't think I'll be getting married again not necessarily because I have anything against the concept of marrying but I think the laws are so unbelieveably f'd up that unless I marry up (financially) I'll always get screwed.
What about getting married in the "church", but not by the state - is that at all possible?
Anyway, I'm thinking about all the stuff where complaining about. As men we sound like a bunch of women, thats what these women are doing to us. It really sickens me that there are so many out there in the same position. Theres a ton of crap that were putting up with.
