Need a Plan for My Marriage

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I am going to let daughter and son take her to brunch and buy some Sunflowers for her that she likes. I will not go, so the kids can enjoy the day with her. I am doing this for my daughter and son that feel guilty because they do not have the money to do something for their mother; otherwise, I would probably do nothing for her.

Wife and I are arguing over son wanting to constantly sleep in our bed, and he is almost 5. This upsets our daughter. He does not do this when she is not here. I guess there is some fear of losing her, but she is only making it worse by allowing it. I am just frustrated by her.

She was accusing the communication between us being my fault too. I told her no it is not that she will not even talk to me. I told her I try, and she does nothing to improve the situation. I finally gave up, but I stood my ground tonight on my son staying in his own room, and he went right to sleep.