Hello everyone from the city of Brotherly Love where I am on a business trip. Well 3 weeks of NC done and I am feeling better about myself and enjoying life more. Have been out several times to see shows and to go to functions and just getting out and GAL.

NC from W at all in those same three weeks. Not sure how she is doing and haven't even tried to find out. Had IC on Saturday and told C about things that W had said to mutual friend. C said that it was sad to hear how things have changed since she saw her in her office 6-8 months ago and that her focus has changed from what she had originally wanted for herself.

I too think that it is sad but there is nothing I can do about it but work on me and enjoy doing things for myself and with other people that I enjoy being with. Saw a show Saturday night with younger lady friend and one person said that I seemed ten years younger than when she saw me 4 months ago and I told her what was happening. That of course made me feel GREAT!

Read robx' thread the last few days and love how it made me feel about what I am doing and how I am doing it for myself and that it doesn't matter if my W ever comes back or not because I am doing great and liking where I am and looking forward to the future with my kids. Going to ask a different woman out for dinner and a show this Saturday. She is going through a pretty painful D after her H cheated on her with one of her D teachers and is still with the teacher!

That's all I have to say for now. If you have any advice for me I would love to hear it.

Thanks!


Me48 WAW46 M24 yrs
S24 D21 D19
EA disc 6/09
2nd EA Fall 09
I move out 11/12/09
W and I switch 1/14/10
D Filed 3/17/10
W moves in with OM 6/8/10
D Final 6/21/10

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