She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

[steady]

I don't see how this can appear to be so easy for her, because inside it's frustrating as heck for me.

You answered yourself in this statement. The key word is APPEAR. Perhaps she is thinking it is so easy for you because it appears that way.

When we compare ourselves to someone, we are matching our INSIDES with their OUTSIDES.

Don't be fooled by appearances.