I'm new on here and have been reading through some posts. (I have not had time to post my story yet.) A few of the things you said struck me, as I've been having the same thoughts. My husband told me recently that he isn't happy (doesn't think he ever has been) and he is no longer in love with me. I know exactly what you mean about not believing it, because there is no way to fake happiness for so long! Although we've been together for a much shorter time than you, I still feel your pain at hearing those words and trying to deal with it.

I read through the post about things not to do...and like you, I've done alot of them! I guess I just wanted to say that you are not alone. I wish I had advice to give, but I'm just as lost and confused right now, so I'll leave that to the others.


Me:24
H:27
M:2 1/2 years/T:5
Separted since 3/17/10
D bomb:5/11/10