That was deep Steady. Seriously, that is all 100% correct. That's one of the things my W and I were talking about yesterday. Her control issues led us to not do much together anymore because she didn't trust anyone with our kids.
This something she and her C are trying to work on. She's obviously let go and allowed someone other than her to watch the girls.
Steady, you were correct about the separation being easier when you're physically separated. I love that she's here, and I love that we're getting along. I hate that she says good night and goes into the other room and closes the door.
It's never easy, and may even get harder. It makes me want to go live somewhere else sometimes, but I don't want to leave my children. I don't see how this can appear to be so easy for her, because inside it's frustrating as heck for me.
Married 18 Me 39 W 37 D 15 D 5 Divorce Filed 8 April 2010 Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept