Your X lying to the psych is only going to hurt D10, but he's apparently less worried about his D's well being than what he THINKS might make him look good. That's a shame, but not all that surprising given what we already know about him.

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I keep getting happier as time passes...


That's great. And as you said to me in my thread, detaching feels good. Or at least letting go frees us up from that which has dragged us down for so long (the WAS).


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.