Detaching isn't about calling it quits, or whatever. It's about letting go. Right now she has power over you because YOU are letting her. Is she the one who isn't making you eat? No. YOU ARE.
Start thinking about yourself for starters and your needs. Don't even think about her or how your actions are going to affect her, etc. Start thinking about your health and happiness.
In the beginning stages it's tough. But she's not giving you a second thought, why should you?
You don't have to tell her anything or communicated with her at all. It's a way to get your own head straight first.
What you're going through is grief. Grief over the death of your R. Eventually we all get out of that grief. You stop dwelling on "why" it happened, and start saying "I will do this for me today".
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
