Too Late For Us?

[mrbt]

MrBond. Thanks for your reply.

First, regarding the question about the who gets which bedroom. Its an apartment so both bedrooms are identical. I don't feel like I am making a concession (I have the bedroom furniture if that counts for anything).

Regarding the question of intimacy. Yes. . . a few times. However, we have agreed to avoid sexual contact for the time being. My wife was sexually abused as a child. She is currently seeing a counselor to deal with the affects of the abuse. The counselor has suggested a "vacation" from all sexual contact. Recently, when we have been intimate, it has turned out badly due to flashbacks and/or a negative emotional response - it just does strange things to her at this point (hasn't always been this way).