Too Late For Us?

[mrbt]

Hi All. Just a quick update for anyone that cares to know.

Things have been calm with us lately. In fact, it looks like I will be moving back home this weekend. This sounds like good news but I am not so sure. Wife has not agreed to file an order of reconciliation (lawyer talk for canceling the divorce ) - she has not committed to work on the marriage.

It went something like this . . .

We have been spending most of our free time together ever since the divorce hearing was cancelled. Sometimes she stays at my place, sometimes I stay at her (our) place, sometimes we stay apart. We get along well expect for this creepy "I plan to divorce you some day" thing that floats around in the air.

The idea of dumping one of the two apartments was discussed a couple of times over the past few weeks. Yesterday I made a comment about it - no discussion.

I went back to my apartment to work ( I work from home ) and later returned to her apartment for lunch. I found her in the process of moving furniture - preparing the spare bedroom for me to move into.

The plan is to live together but have separate bedrooms. She is not making any commitments regarding the marriage -- she wants to continue her counseling and "see how it goes."

So, what do you think?

On one hand I like the idea of being home. I am okay with the separate bedrooms. We get along - we don't fight - we enjoy each others company. And, we'd save about $1,000 per month. On the other hand, this leaves me in limbo land.