Hey Newmom, I think GAL is great--and male attention that boosts your self-esteem is wonderful.
BUT....just in general...they say don't date for a year after a D for a reason. You just aren't in the right place to be picking the next one. It's fun to look--really, really fun. But be very careful for you and for S's sake. You want to have yourself in a very good, very grounded place before you become involved with anyone else. Are you "there" yet?
That's why the affair person is such a terrible choice. What a way to start a R!
