I haven't had contact of any kind with H in over two weeks. I haven't had any need to talk to him about kids or finances and quite frankly it's much easier on me with NC.
Yesterday I checked my email and found that my H had emailed me a e-cookbook full of recipes that the restaurants are famous for. Since I love to cook,(used to) and H loved to eat my cooking, and knowing ow hates to cook, I was really surprised that H would even send that to me. I sent H an email thanking him for it and that I couldn't wait to make some favorites. H sent me an email this am saying, "Thought you might.....especially with the TGIF ones."
Zero expectations with any of it, but thought it was kind of strange that it came at a time when I had been wondering to myself if H ever thought about me at all anymore.