There are some suspicious things that your H is saying, however I would not worry about him for the moment. You need to make this your time. You need to take focus off of him and put it on yourself. The detaching will help. Also try reading the thread for the Stages of LBS. Also the stages of MLC in the resource thread. I have given you a lot of reading to do, as Jack says this is hard work. I hope you are up for it.
