Honestly, my H and I did not discuss too much when he came back...little things here and there but for the most part it was put behind us...talking about how hurt I was would have only laid more guilt on him...him feeling more guilt would not have been good for either of us...if something was really gnawing at me I would bring it up calmly and if he chose to talk we did, if not I let it go and worked through it the best I could...sometimes coming here put things in persective for me...after all I was over the roller coaster ride and on the recovery ride...really, helped me be greatful and focus on the positive... move forward and avoid looking back!
