^^^ Yes and finding that "one" thing you didn't see before, keeps it all going in a vicious circle. As to whether it's "productive" or not...I'm not sure. In my case, if I weren't still looking at cell recs, I wouldn't know about the IMing. I asked him about it, he resisted, and now I'm going dark. So what that productive...depends how you look at it I guess but in the end the stress it puts on me is more than any "benefit" I think.
M--14 years T--20 years, HS sweethearts dday #1--2002 EA dday #2--2005 bar sl*t dday #3/4--Feb 2010 texting/cell/physical/who knows what Shortly after found out he had been injecting steroids for 2 years
