Good for you D....resisting being the rescuer. You are right sometimes we have to let them fall for them to learn a lesson.

This also means that you are pretty detached smile

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO