2 weeks left to DB

[newmama]

If my husband doesn'st snap out of it while he is in the country and has taken off for Europe, I will never see him again, and reconcilliation willl be impossible.

Here is the hard truth- you have done everything you can to influence him to snap out of it. It is up to him to end the A. Therefore it is not in your control.The reason why I told you it was fog was because I had the impression you think the things he said are true and permanent...

You don't know for sure that you will never see him again, and not reconcile, right? I mean you can if that is your choice though (not see him again- and choose not to reconcile if he wants to).