seeking, I hope you get all your chances in the show ring with your quarters and paints. We have the same breeds, plus a few more. I am partial to paints. If you're going to feed them they might as well be pretty too! lol
BT, slower than molasses.....it's been so long to get to this stage. You know patience too, frustrating as it is.
kat, thanks!
H stayed on the couch last night. I don't know why, and I won't ask yet. I actualy sleep better without him in bed, after this many years it's quite an adjustment again.
H is also TRYING to get a handle on his debt. That's something I have been stressing he needs to do. Penalties and interest is killing him. He called yesterday to ask if he could use a couple hundred from another account to cover something until he could get to the bank today to make a deposit. I said yes. Today he put the money back.
I never separated our bank accounts, but I did take him off any of my credit card accounts, except for one I didn't catch and sure enough he caught it and now I am responsible for that debt too.
We spent last evening working together, it felt so natural to be doing what we were doing.
I cannot imagine how hard this is for my H to be working back into the M and my life and keep his enormous Cowboy Pride. I hope that I am not doing anything that makes it harder for him.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.