Originally Posted By: CityGirl
Going in circles is a good way to put it.

James, I think you have a golden opportunity to really get your head on straight while your W is getting in patient medical treatment. You need to come first, your children need to come second and your W needs to be a very distant third.

I can't say I understand why you took this job knowing you would not be able to follow through or why any kind of attny would even advise such a thing. I can't understand why you keep engaging with your WAW.

I guess I am really frustrated with you. I hear so many excuses and you seem to shun the healthy things in your life and cling to the very unhealthy. Can you help me understand without any excuses as to why?


The main reason I took the job was to try to catch up on child support. Plus I've been denied disability benefits two times already and they recommended trying to work. I really wanted to. I loved the job and the company but after i took the job I began to receive more appointments in regards to getting approved for the cornea transplant. So it would have been impossible for me to stay within the jobs attendance policy and make these appointments. The temporary service is just going to place me on something later.

It also shows the judge for my child support that I have tried to work and it just didn't work right then and there.

I'm getting frustrated with all the appointments consistently being added ( I would not have taken the job if I knew all those appointments were coming up I thought I would be approved and just have the surgery. The seizures really messed things up)

Yes I'm refocusing again. My health issues I think may be done by mid June (since surgery was pushed back because I couldn't get cleared for anestesia cause I have not seen neurologist and started work)

Plus I just wanted to test myself too. I wanted to see if I could work again. I'm still not ready. *sighs*


waw 36 (spiritual covenant and common law marriage)me 32
together 13 mos. Bomb dropped march 2nd 2010

children SD (8) S (10) S (3)
need help from anyone with my sitch