online affair about to become physical

[david allen]

Ive been away for a while getting my life back on track, wife moved out first week of april, been suspecting internet affair for a very long time, wife asked if our son could stay with me for three days so she could go on a trip to boston, of course i agreed. I asked who she was going to see and she told me nothing. Months ago I went through the whole spying thing and saw on facebook several men she had been chatting with one alot more then the others, fed up with the frustration I stopped all that untill today I remembered this one guy from boston with little effort thats who she is going to see. My biggest frustration is the big ball of lies and I'm wondering is it smart to confront her about the lies at this point I think i'm going to just excommunicate her from my life. To this point I have been friendly and cooperative,even fixing things in her new place. Any advice would be helpfull.