In Mars & Venus, John Gray writes "To forget her own painful feelings, a woman may become emotionally involved in the problems of others."
This seems to fit my W. She seems to hook-up with emotionally needy people, who never seem to solve their problems. This gives her a perpetual helper role. Her dance friend of last year who was going thru a D is a good example.
When our connection began to increase, I began to set limits with him in terms of amount of time spent at our household. He hasn't been in the household for some time. I've been vocal recently about my opinion of him, and told my W that I want positive people in our life, or people with problems who are trying to better themselves.
I'll need to pay closer attention to this warning sign.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
