I appreciate the response. I am torn due to the fact I definately feel many of his actions are MLC but there is no OW at this time at least and I believe he would not do that without telling me first. I am just confused and wondering if my actions are a part of why he has decided to stay at home and try the seperation instead of actually leaving and getting his own place. I often wonder if I should distance myself more or if I should just keep doing what I have been doing. This is the part that really is difficult to guage. I realize I need to detach more than I already have but that is going to be a difficult journey for me. I also have to say that even though this is my 2nd time around it is much different and harder (perhaps more years vested)
