Hi Shiny,

If I decide to send David any more emails I will post them first. But I don't think that is the case. It goes along with his not returning phone calls. His family has always complained about him not returning phone calls or answering emails. Just his 'thang' I guess!

He actually said the last few emails I did send him he thought were nice and clear and he kept saying he was going to answer them. So far no go, but hey if he is spending the time reading and posting on the bb instead of answering me I guess for now that works! Just that eventually we will have to figure out a way to communicate with one another!

I have a positive to add to last night!

David showed up right after I had turned the lights out and crawled in bed! He fixed the microwave and said he didn't smell gas in the house. I said no the smell is pretty much gone now whatever it was that caused it.

He sat on the kitchen floor, glad I had just swept it! and leaned against the cabinets and sort of dozed I think. Not much conversation. Hey Sage!!! I listened and didn't say much or try to bring up anything!!!!!!!!!

He did thank me for being patient about the microwave and the smell in the house! WOO HOO! I did something right. I wasn't near as patient as he might think. But at least he didn't know it.

He offered to work on my computer again but he was struggling to stay awake and feeling real tired. Didn't think that was the best time to start a project we already knew didn't just go like it should.

I had left him voice mail early afternoon asking about getting the other microwave moved to where I could use it so I had it to fix my dinners. When he was sitting in the bedroom describing all of his symptoms then he said do you want me to fix the microwave and I said YES! I then asked if he got my voice mail and that was why he had come over. He said yes he got it but he came over because he just tonight had felt like coming over. I think that is a good thing. He could have just said he came because of the microwave.

So very quiet visit, but I think he appreciated that and I sent him some kind of tea cocoa stuff that he likes to see if it helps his throat feel any better.

He is still pretty sick. Sure hope I don't catch it.


Interesting note. When I think about it, other than the two darn PMS days I unleashed last week, our interactions I think have slowed down I actually do talk less and listen more and have been I think positive or at least non emotional type interactions.

Maybe once he feels better he will come over more often. That is if he ever gets to feeling better.


Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"