ok i think that issue is do you let go completely? no contact? what if you show up with lunch and act happy? i did that initially and we were making good memories, but the last time i saw him he was so cruel to me. it just snapped. so that means its time to just kinda go away? you guys, he seems to only be thinking of the bad times. he says we had NO GOOD TIMES. he's SO ANGRY and when he is alone with his thoughts, that's what he is thinking. what will change that if i just go away? how doe sthat work exactly?
