Can you see the Morning After

[psluke]

I have decided this is something that happens on a regular basis and I wanted to get some input on it.

To me this is simply being rude, but I wasn't brought up with proper manners and all that and David was, so this could be something I have in my head that is all wrong.

Yesterday morning he called in regards to the gas message I had left on his cell phone Friday night. He felt really awful and I said I really hope you feel better soon I am starting to worry about you a bit. He joked a tad that he is getting better so I said ok I won't worry.

He was going back to bed. Then that afternoon he called just to let me know he was feeling better as I had said I was a bit worried that morning. I thought that was really nice of him.

I asked him if he was going to ride over and see if he had any ideas on the smell and he said maybe he was going to get off the phone go to the bathroom and finish waking up.

He really never gives definite answers most of the time. Bunny says he doesn't at work either! So at least I know it isn't just me. I think it is a defense mechanism he learned dealing with his mom to shut her up and out.

Anyway this was a maybe that sounded more like a yes than a no. I know my ASSumption. I never heard back from him at all. Not last night to say he really didn't feel like coming over or at all today.

He had also said he would look at the microwave as it has stopped working. Their goes my microwave dinners!

But to me as he indicated fairly strongly he might come over the polite thing to do is to call back if you aren't going to make it and let the other person know this information. Do I have this wrong?