Being strong and a leader doesn't mean you aren't compassionate and loving. Your wife is watching you very closely right now.
I know this is the key. Even though she says she's not in love with me, and I have said the same thing, I need to show compassion. I need to say things in a way that seems like I hate even bringing them up.
I know she is hurting too. This detachment thing is a beotch. To truely be detached, I must truely be okay with either outcome. I want to save this. I can't quite turn the corner, though. I don't want the marriage we've had for the past 6 or 8 months, I want a new and better one. One where we both realize we have made mistakes and are better prepared to deal with problems that arise. Only if she want the same.
