H freaked out. He started to go on and on about how I am trying to push him away because I don't want to have things in common anymore (I had mentioned how it would be so much easier if at least the cell bill was separate instead of family.
I did that. I freaked out. As long as all that stuff is together you have hope things will eventually work out. STBXW started pushing to change things right away and I -- rightly -- took it as a sign that things were getting worse.
As much as I think H is a schmuck who wants to have it both ways -- OW and a backup plan -- and deserves to be divorced, he clearly doesn't want to be divorced.
So that's an insight into his mind.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
