Yes, I like that, follow his lead and if he asks for info on doctor I will give it to him. Or anything else going on right now. This way I am MUCH LESS likely to come across controlling even if I don't feel I am trying to be controlling at all.

On the other side he also claims I am selfish and don't do things for him. So a very fine line to try to do acts of service without being controlling.

Well, cool that is pretty much what I try to do with mom now when she brings up sad stuff. It is just that even hearing it sometimes it sticks in my head.

I think next summer I will be more ready to be at horse shows again. My niece will probably be showing again and I am the official mane bander. So I should hit a few shows and possibly the girls that have our horses will get them out some and maybe I will be ready to go see them doing something other than standing around in my barn. I really didn't like them not doing something. It sort of gives me a good feeling now knowing they are not bored and have stuff to keep them occupied now.

Well, Zoo said she wished she could give me thicker skin! Guess I just need to work on it.


So hey hope you have a good time. Don't want to post on your thread and fill it up anymore.

Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"