You're an LBS now. Left Behind Spouse, and the successful LBSers are the ones who realize they should change too. What don't you like in yourself...are you too bossy? To controlling? Look deep in the mirror, and be honest with yourself...really honest with yourself, work on killing the things you don't like in that mirror.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK