When I told WH that I don't want to see him, I made sure that he understood that this is for me, that I'm done and I have to heal and I'm getting on with my life without him and it would help me if we had minimum contact. That I'm not letting him do this to me anymore.
So if he has guilt...so be it, but hopefully I made it clear to him that this not trying to control him or punish him.
About the going dark changing his mind? He seems so obsessed with this women and as long as SHE wants him I doubt that he will reject her. I'm just trying to be realistic, not negative. But never say never...right?
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
