Willing to bet that 'upset' was the nicer way of the terms.
Because suggesting to someone that they are having a Mid Life Crisis...is alot like saying. "I think you're [censored] nuts. How could you not want me?"
And I'm not sure how many people crazy or otherwise would agree that there might be something wrong in their noodle.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
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