Only talk to her like this if you are detached enough to do it. Rehearse it in your "voice." Coach yourself on the triggers and how to deal with them.
Tell her "I have been thinking about what you said and this is what I have decided." You have a choice in how you handle it.
No expectations, no fears (you are already dead) and be a leader. You can handle it
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
