The only weird thing was that she had envisioned us dating.
It's weird to you, I know I got the same line. She moved out, filed for D then she wants to date WTF Over?
This is truly a gift. She wants the emotional connection, some tension, some chasing on her part, she wants to be wooed and she wants to want you.
Tell her to meet you at x restaurant at x time. Then show up "on." You arrive second, looking good, new clothes, haircut and smelling great. Lead the conversation, really listen, talk about your day and look in her eyes. Walk her to her car and be the one who ends the conversation. Leave her wanting more. Be interesting,interested and mysterious.
You can handle it.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.