This DB stuff really works. It definitely seems counterproductive on the surface, but it can produce results.

This isn't repaired by a long shot, but my actions have caused things to head in the right direction. I took a stand, wasn't a jerk, and stood up for myself.

My W admitted to having control problems, which we knew already, and that was one of the things she was trying to work on with her C.

That's currently one of the things that's been holding this thing back. She had her mental timeline and the events she envisioned. When her timeline got screwed up, that screwed her up.

I just need to keep doing what I'm doing and hope for positive results in the end.


Married 18
Me 39
W 37
D 15
D 5
Divorce Filed 8 April 2010
Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept