It would be impossible for me to say there is no OM right now, but before I left I snooped big time. I checked her emails daily, FB daily, texts daily, and phone records daily. There was no pattern at all. If there was an OM, I would have seen something. I dug DEEP. And she doesn't want to put it on hold, she actually wants to speed this up! But I want to buy time, maybe even try that Retrouville place. But I'm not sure it's a good time to mention that one. I'll have to do it soon though because their nxt retreat is 6/11. One week after our 2yr anniversary.