When I did find out about the OW and we started therapy, the therapist said he was mean out of guilt and it was a good thing, cause it meant he had guilt which some don't. Well, in our situation, the guilt didn't matter, the OW was saying and doing everything right while I was home crying and a mess.
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Sometimes I think he is mean because he wants to divorce, and he wants to push me to do it. or he is guilty about wanting a divorce. One thing I know- I doubt I will ever get the truth.
