My H is going thru transitions, he does not want to be "laid back", he wants to assert himself. He needs (IMHO) to address this with his mother, but I feel I am the authority around.
He also does not admit many wrong doings. He finger points and blames. He reasons like a 14 year old (as per our counselor)
MLC. and a boat of anger, too.
It is better in my face than behind my back. May be a step in the right direction of solving something. He can be mean and nasty. But he can also be very nice. This was not the man he was/I knew for 20 years.
If he wants to divorce, why does he not just "finish the job?"
I do love him, and I am hoping that this is "MLC blaming". I did have huge issues with PTSD and anxiety. I still do not sleep. I caused a lot of the problems in the last 4 years- I still have issues forgiving and forgetting.
We have limped alon through this for 4 years. I was hoping there was a light- Now I just feel that his anger is just getting more built up.
