What True said is spot f*cking on! Spot f*cking on. Look man - you really need to step back and think about what YOU really want. If it is to stand than DO IT. If it is to D then DO it. Someone gave me some advice when I was in the middle of totally srewing up my sitch. I thought I was done. I thought I had enough. I thought too much damage was done. Here is the simple piece of advice..
WHATEVER YOU DO MAKE SURE THAT YOU (stress YOU) WILL NOT HAVE ANY REGRETS.
In my sitch, that made me reconsider filing. I decided after chewing on this piece of advice that I DID NOT want to file. In my sitch, my W ended up filing. You know what...I know accept that she OWNS the D. Yep - she owns it. So what are you REALLY willing to own? Remember, time may change your mind. Remember that every sitch is temporary!
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans