Hmmm...my answer to someone yesterday was, "He decided he didn't want to be married to me anymore"...
Because that's what it came down to...we didn't D because of his affairs, I would have worked through them. We didn't D because of lies or grudges or any of that. We D'd because he looked at his options, working through things with me or moving on without me, and he chose. Besides acquaintances/distant friends don't really need to be privy to all the details...at least not in my small town!
